Well.. some of my super boring post again.. with funny funny theories in life.. this post only only part 1. i will update when i can think of more.. today's post is for some ppl who may face crazy colleagues in work / classmates in schools who always give you hell of the day.. here are some stuff i have learn from my path of life. some are my view and some are learnt from ppl i know.
Golden Rule - Dunno, Dun care Dun bother aka the 3D's (From Wee Wu in TPJC times, ppl who know him sure hear of this)
The basics of this rule is simple. For everything, even if you know, if it doesn't concern you pretend you dunno. By doing this you have already achieve part 2 liao which is dun care which chinese say "Bo Chup"... well there is some difference between dun care and dun bother.. dun care means that issue is not even in your mind but dun bother means that issue is in your mind but u dun wan to find out more... it is complicate in theory but easy to apply. For example, X (who is NOT your friend) is really sad today... and the whole company / class can tell. you hear that X and her bf had a fight and is breaking up. to apply the 3D's means the following:
1) DO NOT go and be a KPO and ask what happen. why? ppl will say u only pretend to care (even if you really did wan to care) just to get gossip out of her since X is not your friend
2) Since the whole company / class knows about it, during break, ppl are sure to tok about it.. pretend you dunno anything and dun ask and dun listen.. it is not going to benfit you also..
the 3D's also apply when u hear ppl tok bad bout you or your friends. Which comes to the next point.
What to do when u know (or at least think) ppl are talking behind your back?
believe me.. most of the time is you lack of insecurity and think that way.. but if you really hear it urself here are the thing to do or wonder about.. trust me.. if you think this way life is a lot better.. and please also note these are theories and not things to comfort or bluff yourself with (for ppl who talk behind ppl's back.. these applies to you...)
1) Please please remember "2 wrongs does not make 1 right".. ppl gossip bout you or make up stories bout you does not mean that you must do the same back.. it only makes you the same as them... you will take the higher (and more rightous) path and apply the 3D's.
2) ever wonder y ppl wan to gossip bout you? firstly, you are not their league (which thank God is a good thing).. they are usually jealous of you or they THINK you are not as good as them which is not true since they are the low ppl who will be judge one day for their actions bu God.
3) sometimes ppl gossip because they have no common topic to talk about (theory from Tommy which i think is super true).. they may look like very close friends but most of the time if you listen to them talk, they are either gossiping about other ppl or showing off to each other about how good they are.. sometimes they can complain about little things that happen and make a super big fuss about it... i am sure you can identify ppl like that in your company / class.
4) think on the good side when these ppl talk bout you they are thinking about you.. they can't keep you out of their minds...
What to do when ppl try to find fault in you and everything you do.
This will only apply to ppl to work... seldom this applies to ppl in school.. sometimes u may come across some ppl who are super free that alway find fault in you when you do anything wrong.. and give you a hell of a time even if it is a small mistake.. firstly is this person your boss? if he / she is.. please quit your job la... if not the rest of you life will be a living hell... obviously this person has no idea of the saying "nobody's perfect" and this person thinks he / she is very perfect... if this person is some one not related to your job, please screw the person and tell his / her boss.. or at least get your boss to do so.. ppl like this no need give face one.. but if you are scare then no ppl can save you liao...
Last but not least.. Do What is Right than to do What You Like. (i can't rem who said these but it is really true also)
What this means is simply that doing the right thing is not always easy but as long as one faith is strong there should not be a problem.. i may not be a Christian that always go church but God is always on my mind and the 1st person i turn to when i am in need even to simple stuff... God has did wonders in my life and I will try my best to follow his words... and one of them is doing the right thing.. i may not know completely what is mentioned in the Bible but i sure know that making another person miserable is not a right thing. some may think that if ppl treat me bad i will do the same to them... like i say above "2 wrongs does not make 1 right".. stand up for yourself and your faith and answer to nobody but God..
Golden Rule - Dunno, Dun care Dun bother aka the 3D's (From Wee Wu in TPJC times, ppl who know him sure hear of this)
The basics of this rule is simple. For everything, even if you know, if it doesn't concern you pretend you dunno. By doing this you have already achieve part 2 liao which is dun care which chinese say "Bo Chup"... well there is some difference between dun care and dun bother.. dun care means that issue is not even in your mind but dun bother means that issue is in your mind but u dun wan to find out more... it is complicate in theory but easy to apply. For example, X (who is NOT your friend) is really sad today... and the whole company / class can tell. you hear that X and her bf had a fight and is breaking up. to apply the 3D's means the following:
1) DO NOT go and be a KPO and ask what happen. why? ppl will say u only pretend to care (even if you really did wan to care) just to get gossip out of her since X is not your friend
2) Since the whole company / class knows about it, during break, ppl are sure to tok about it.. pretend you dunno anything and dun ask and dun listen.. it is not going to benfit you also..
the 3D's also apply when u hear ppl tok bad bout you or your friends. Which comes to the next point.
What to do when u know (or at least think) ppl are talking behind your back?
believe me.. most of the time is you lack of insecurity and think that way.. but if you really hear it urself here are the thing to do or wonder about.. trust me.. if you think this way life is a lot better.. and please also note these are theories and not things to comfort or bluff yourself with (for ppl who talk behind ppl's back.. these applies to you...)
1) Please please remember "2 wrongs does not make 1 right".. ppl gossip bout you or make up stories bout you does not mean that you must do the same back.. it only makes you the same as them... you will take the higher (and more rightous) path and apply the 3D's.
2) ever wonder y ppl wan to gossip bout you? firstly, you are not their league (which thank God is a good thing).. they are usually jealous of you or they THINK you are not as good as them which is not true since they are the low ppl who will be judge one day for their actions bu God.
3) sometimes ppl gossip because they have no common topic to talk about (theory from Tommy which i think is super true).. they may look like very close friends but most of the time if you listen to them talk, they are either gossiping about other ppl or showing off to each other about how good they are.. sometimes they can complain about little things that happen and make a super big fuss about it... i am sure you can identify ppl like that in your company / class.
4) think on the good side when these ppl talk bout you they are thinking about you.. they can't keep you out of their minds...
What to do when ppl try to find fault in you and everything you do.
This will only apply to ppl to work... seldom this applies to ppl in school.. sometimes u may come across some ppl who are super free that alway find fault in you when you do anything wrong.. and give you a hell of a time even if it is a small mistake.. firstly is this person your boss? if he / she is.. please quit your job la... if not the rest of you life will be a living hell... obviously this person has no idea of the saying "nobody's perfect" and this person thinks he / she is very perfect... if this person is some one not related to your job, please screw the person and tell his / her boss.. or at least get your boss to do so.. ppl like this no need give face one.. but if you are scare then no ppl can save you liao...
Last but not least.. Do What is Right than to do What You Like. (i can't rem who said these but it is really true also)
What this means is simply that doing the right thing is not always easy but as long as one faith is strong there should not be a problem.. i may not be a Christian that always go church but God is always on my mind and the 1st person i turn to when i am in need even to simple stuff... God has did wonders in my life and I will try my best to follow his words... and one of them is doing the right thing.. i may not know completely what is mentioned in the Bible but i sure know that making another person miserable is not a right thing. some may think that if ppl treat me bad i will do the same to them... like i say above "2 wrongs does not make 1 right".. stand up for yourself and your faith and answer to nobody but God..
Just remember one thing.. not all ppl in this world is the same.. some have no manners, some have no brains, some are both, some are fakers and some just follow everything that is NOT right.. so just have faith in God so that you dun fall in these categories... Also remember GOD IS WATCHING....
End of my strange and boring theories post part 1... haha
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